Many artists dream of finding the perfect music mentor—someone who will guide them, challenge them, and help them grow into their full potential. But the truth is, mentors are not something you go out and find. Mentors find you.

When a mentor steps into your life, it’s because they’ve seen something in you—your talent, your skill, your dedication, or your potential. They recognize that you’re worth investing their time and energy into, and they choose to offer you guidance. This is what we call chosen mentorship.

Chosen Mentorship

In chosen mentorship, a music expert notices you and invites you into their circle. They may see your drive, your creativity, or your promise as an artist, and they make the decision to help you grow.

This type of mentorship comes at no cost to you, because the mentor is investing in you out of belief and respect for your artistry. It’s a gift, not a service.

When No Mentor Has Picked You Yet

Of course, not everyone is chosen by a mentor right away—and that doesn’t mean your journey stops. It simply means you take another route to grow your craft.

If no mentor has sought you out, you can:

Enroll in classes to strengthen your skills
Book consultations with industry professionals
Hire teachers or coaches to guide you with one-on-one feedback

This path is just as valuable, because you’re actively investing in your own development. While chosen mentorship is rare and special, paying for guidance is how most artists learn, grow, and refine their work.

Mentor vs. Teacher

It’s important to understand the difference:

Mentor: Picks you, believes in you, invests time at no cost

Teacher/Coach/Professional: You pick them, and you invest financially in their expertise

Both roles are important. One is a gift, the other is a career—but each can shape your artistry in meaningful ways.

Your Next Step

If you’re looking for guidance right now, you don’t have to wait for a mentor to find you. You can take action.

At Red Velvet Studios, we assist artists with development through one-on-one support, consultations, and online classes.

If that’s what you’re looking for, feel free to DM us. We’d be glad to help you take the next step in your journey.